Friday, August 17, 2007

Summer camp teaches peace to Oklahoma City children
By John Gordon*

Peace Challenge campers listen to U.S. Park Ranger Rachel Winters talk about the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing. The United Methodist camp teaches fifth- and sixth-graders how to resolve conflicts peacefully. UMNS photos by David Huff.

OKLAHOMA CITY (UMNS)-It's an unlikely place to start a lesson in peace-the site of the deadliest domestic-terrorism attack on U.S. soil.

"Sixteen buildings in the area were destroyed, and between 300 and 350 buildings in about a 20-block radius were damaged," explains Rachel Winters, National Parks Service tour guide at the Oklahoma City National Memorial & Museum.

Listening attentively to details about the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building are fifth- and sixth-graders attending a weeklong Peace Challenge Camp. The program, in its third year, is sponsored by Skyline Urban Ministry, a mission of The United Methodist Church's Oklahoma Annual (regional) Conference.

"I just felt very sad and angry," says camper Alexis Carr, 11, of Oklahoma City. The 1995 bombing occurred before Carr was born. "I understand that it really doesn't benefit for anybody to harbor anger," she says.

That's the connection organizers of the Peace Challenge Camp are hoping children will make. The bombing, which grew out of executed bomber Timothy McVeigh's grudge against the federal government, killed 168 people, including 19 children.

"We talk with them about the process (by) which violence escalates," says Conna Wilkinson, director of the camp. "And we'll do some role-playing with them where what starts out to be a minor disagreement can escalate into a violent encounter. I feel that the Murrah building bombing is a good illustration of that on a pretty big scale."

Inside the museum, the campers see pictures and videos of the bombing. They pause to look at toys and shoes that belonged to some of the children killed in the blast.

"It wasn't their fault," says camper Abby Treadway, 10, of Edmond, Okla. "Why would you blow up a building just because you didn't like what they thought?"

After the visit to the memorial, the youngsters spend five days at a camp near Oklahoma City. At least half of the 16 children attending the camp come from inner-city neighborhoods, where street gangs and fights are common problems.

"We've had kids that have come through here and say this is the first time they've ever spent five days without getting in a fight or getting in trouble," Wilkinson says. "This is an atmosphere where they can experience what life would feel like if they're getting everything they need and not having to fight."

During the week, the campers will hear from guest speakers, including a man whose daughter was killed in the bombing. The campers are divided into teams and encouraged to work together and solve problems with words instead of fists.

Art and symbolism
Art is a big part of the Peace Challenge Camp.

"Art is actually a practice of peace," says Jo Anne Alexander, an artist-in-residence at the camp. "If you're creating something, you can't be destroying."

As a symbol, the campers will walk through a portal made of tree branches.

"We've actually built a portal (so) that the children can have a concrete image to walk through," Alexander says. "A portal is a transition from one place to another, or one idea to another."

Campers also practice meditation, sing and have their own chant: "Who are we? We are peacemakers. Peaceful people make a peaceful world."

Camper Raymond Sharrieff of Oklahoma City says the activities help kids understand how to forgive and resolve conflicts without violence.

"Say if I get inside a bad situation, I don't have to worry about having conflict physically, instead of just talking stuff out," he says. "A lot of people have conflict when they don't need to."

Solving problems
Patricia Webb, who helped develop the curriculum, says Peace Challenge Camp empowers children to look for grassroots solutions to problems.

"We have to do something different. What we're doing in the world is not working very well," Webb says.

"We want them to understand that world peace is not something that might be created by a diplomat or a group of high-powered people in a room-that they can have their part, right now today, in creating peace."

And Wilkinson hopes the peaceful practices children learn will last beyond their time at the camp.

"Kids could come to the belief that it actually is possible," she says. "And if they experience it for five days, they have to say, 'It is possible.'"

*Gordon is a freelance producer and writer based in Marshall, Texas.

Friday, August 10, 2007

Youth Ministry Best Practices Retreat--Plow, Plant, Tend, Cultivate, Harvest--October 8 - 9, 2007

The Joint Youth Ministries of
Kentucky Conference and
Tennessee Conference of
The United Methodist Church
present
Two Days of Building Into
Your Ministry’s Youth Ministry


Monday, October 8 – 2:00 pm thru Tuesday, October 9 – 2:00 pm

Retreat Setting:
The Cup of Hope Café
Broadway United Methodist
1323 Melrose Street
Bowling Green, KY 42104
http://www.broadwayunited.org/

PLOW
Facilitator: TBD

· What are the reasons and best practices of why we should do “youth ministry”?
· What are the best ideas and programs that attract students to our ministries?

PLANT
Facilitator: David Sparks
, Ministry with Young People, Kentucky Conference UMC
· What is the true measurement of growth?
· What does a teenage disciple look like?
· How can we transform our youth group to grow disciples of Jesus Christ?

TEND
Facilitator: Rev Terry Carty
, Youthworker Movement
· How do we allow students to identify and practice gifts, talents, and leadership?
· What are the best ways of letting students know they are created for God’s

CULTIVATE
Glory and the building of His Kingdom?
Facilitator: Ken Hundley, Madisonville UMC, Madisonville KY
· How do we excite and equip students to do mission and ministry to “all the world?” (Great Commission)
· What can students do to bring “God’s Kingdom to earth?”
· Can this generation be the one to end poverty and suffering?

HARVEST
Facilitator: Beth Morris
, Director of Youth & Camping Ministries, Tennessee Conference UMC
As Jesus prayed for the unity of all believers in John 17, he prayed, “so that the world may believe that you have sent me… and have loved them even as you have loved me.”
· How can we connect our students in such a way that brings Glory to God?
· What are the best practices to be the church of the future and today?
· How do we in the connectional body fulfill our church mission to “make disciples of Jesus Christ.” (The Book of Discipline of the United Methodist Church 2004)

Bowling Green is in Central Time

Monday October 8
2:00 p.m. Opening Gathering/Worship
2:30 p.m. Plow
4:00 p.m Get Acquainted Break with snacks
4:30 p.m. Plant
6:00 p.m. Dinner
7:00 p.m. Worship/Presentation of Youthworker Movement
7:30 p.m. Tend
9:00 p.m. Adjourn

Tuesday, October 9
8:45 a.m. Coffee Gathering
9:00 a.m. Gathering Worship
9:15 a.m. Cultivate
10:45 a.m. Morning Break w/snacks
11:15 a.m. Harvest
12:45 p.m. Lunch
1:30 p.m. Now What? Covenant Worship
2:00 p.m. Adjourn

Each Session will be:
·
½ hour of presentation
- Learning from a tried veteran
· ½ hour of peer discussion
- Learning from each other
· ½ hour of wrap up
- Learning how to implement in your local ministry

The cost of these two days is $35/person.
Cost includes everything happening at Broadway UMC… including dinner on Monday and lunch on Tuesday. It does not include housing or Tuesday breakfast.

The learning from each other time (peer discussion) will have the facilitator leading groups of persons around each of the topics.
We will switch chairs around tables very often so that persons will have opportunity to get to know several new people and hear several ideas.
“Is it good to bring more than one person from a ministry?” -- Yes! We believe that there is no single answer to any question and that many voices will lead to many fresh ideas for implementation.


Some Housing Options in Bowling Green
Holiday Inn University Plaza (270) 745-0088 is the Closest Hotel to Broadway UMC
Drury Inn (270) 842-7100
Fairfield Inn (270) 843-6222
Baymont Inn (270) 843-3200
When searching, you will want something off Interstate 65, Exit 22, Scottsville Road

“Why Bowling Green, Kentucky?” -- As the first joint venture of these two conferences we found that Bowling Green in the Kentucky Conference is actually closer to many Tennessee Conference persons than most of the Kentucky folk.

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For more information
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